Take it together
You can't see your own strength. They can.
You mark what's true about you. Someone who loves you marks what they see in you. Then you look at them side by side. The gap between the two is where the bill is.
Twelve statements each. About ten minutes together. Nothing is sent to us or saved anywhere.
Who's taking it with you?
Your spouse. Your number two. Your controller. A grown kid. The friend who's known you longest and still tells you the truth.
Mark what's true about you, right now.
Not what used to be true. Right now. You'll be tempted to skip the line that's truest.
Your answers are hidden
Hand the phone over.
Don't look over their shoulder. They're going to mark what they see in you, not what you'd want them to.
Now send this to them.
The link carries your marks, so send it only to the person you chose. It won't show them your answers until they've marked their own.
Your marks live only inside that link. We never see them. When they finish, they'll get a link back to send you, so you can both look at the comparison.
Mark what you see in them.
Not what they'd say about themselves. What you see, right now. Be kind and be honest. If you hesitate over a line, that hesitation is worth marking.
Side by side
Here's where you agree, and where you don't.
One rule before you talk.
Want the whole picture behind these? Each bill is laid out on the main page, and all six are the second half of What Built You.